Choose your priority

The scholar gipsy
2 min readJun 30, 2021

Before start to read this content ask a question to yourself, what is your priority in a relationship “understanding” or “genuineness”. If you choose genuineness, well! You choose a wrong one. “Genuineness” is an important one for life but “understanding” is necessary in a relationship

Maturity differ from Genuineness

If you ask me “can you explain what do you mean by ‘maturity’? My explanation is “when you are clear that people are important than their temporary anger and their hurting words”. When you forgive your friend who sometimes behave as a foe, you are a matured person

A Friend and a Foe

You may think how can “a friend and a foe” go together? Extraordinary paradox! They can either be ‘a friend’ or ‘a foe’ not both. The bite of the reality sandwich is sometimes close friend behave like a great foe. It is not meant that they are bad their situation and understanding would be bad. In that situation, enhance your affection towards them. I know it is hard but make a try; definitely affection has the power to change that person again your friend.

To err is Human

To forgive your dear people you should understand one think that ‘To err is Human’ we grow and become good or bad. But remember one thing we are a mixture of good and bad. So sometimes we behave in a bad manner with our dear people. If they are really our dear people then they definitely forgive us and forget our mistakes.

Be a ‘fool’

Be a fool in a relationship Yes! I am serious be a ‘fool’ not like ‘Touch stone’ from “As you like it” I am saying ‘Lance’ from “The Two Gentlemen of Verona” natural fool because they are ‘unaware of ego’ intelligence induce ego so be a fool. It helps to build a forever relationship.

Genuineness and its destination

“Genuineness” (The other word for being straightforward) is an important when it’s come to relationship. But you should hide your genuineness when your people suffer and they express their suffering as anger on you. That person is important for you not their angry words. We should express our feelings but, the time when they are already in a terrible upset we should adjust their yell you should forget their anger and behave in a normal manner which makes them normal.

Reservation for recalling

Always reserve good days and its beautiful memories it helps to overcome hard times in a relationship

Forgiveness makes a foe into a friend

Foolishness makes a friend into forever love

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The scholar gipsy

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